Relationship Guide

Communication Styles

Women are often socialized to be indirect or to avoid conflict. This can lead to passive-aggressiveness. Practice being direct but kind. Say what you mean.

Keeping the Spark Alive

"Lesbian Bed Death" is a myth/stereotype, but long-term relationships do take work. Keep dating each other. Try new things. Don't become just roommates.

Handling Conflict

It's not you vs. her. It's both of you vs. the problem. Take breaks if arguments get heated. Listen to understand, not just to reply.

Moving In (U-Hauling)

The joke exists for a reason! But seriously, take your time. Living together changes the dynamic. Make sure you are financially and emotionally ready.